Do you have The Difference? And, if not—how can you get it? Jean shares the eight things that matter most to help you become financially free.

Happiness and Optimism

Some people believe money leads to happiness. Not true. Once you’re living comfortably, more money doesn’t buy more happiness. The reverse, however, is true: Happiness leads to money. And success. Likewise, so does optimism. Both enable you to solve problems, conjure ideas, take long-range consequences into consideration and come back and try again if you miss the first time.

Resilience

People who have moved from a bad financial situation into comfort or wealth have resilience. They can overcome—on the job, in their personal lives, with their finances. They don’t deny the bad things that happen, but they’re able to turn their focus to things over which they have control with the belief that they have the ability to effect change. The good news is you don’t have to be born with resilience—you can learn it by controlling the things you can control and letting go of the others.

Connectedness

Ever heard of social capital? It’s the asset created when relationships between people change in ways that lead to action, generally for good. It’s an important component of The Difference, and the wealthy and financially comfortable not only have more of it than people living paycheck to paycheck, they know how to use it. They cast a wider net, socializing with neighbours, co-workers, people who can help them advance financially or in their careers. To get your share of social capital, you have to make time for people and put yourself forward as a leader.

Passion

It is a key element that moves people from a life of financial struggle to one of financial success. The wealthy, simply put, want it more than the rest of that. Some want it in the form of money, but most are quite passionate about the careers they choose to pursue. And, at a time where doing what you love may seem not so possible, it’s important to know you can learn to love what you do.

Intuition

Over the years, your brain has scored up scads of patterns, information that tells you that if one thing happens, something else is likely to follow. We feel these signals in our gut—and we call them hunches. They are really our intuition, a sixth sense that is more developed in the wealthy than in anyone else. You can learn to bring yours forward by adopting strategies like giving your intuition a little room to breathe: Jean herself says she has the best aha! moments when she’s not searching for them.

Habitual saving

The wealthy people in our study certainly have the funds to be crazy spenders, but most are not. Both wealthy and financially comfortable individuals say that saving more money has been an “absolutely essential” financial goal as an adult. If you’re not a habitual saver already, The Difference will show you how.<

Invest in stocks

Jean did the research for this book when housing prices were cratering and the markets were falling out of the sky. Yet, one lesson emerged again and again: The wealthy understand the need to take risks in the market—in good times and in bad—in order to make their money work as hard as they do.

Gratitude

The Karma Kickback. The people who get rich—and stay rich—are not just grateful. They practice gratitude by giving back to their communities, to organizations they believe in and the people they care about. Even if you are thinking of something you view as mundane—like your job—when you think about it as a gift, you focus on what life might be if you didn’t have it.

Source: Jean Chatzky on Oprah.com

Read Chapter 1 of The Difference

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• Join The Wellness Revolution
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1) Maximize Your Income

• Set an income goal.
• Ask for a raise.
• Work an extra hour a week.
• Learn more about making more.

2) Spend Less Than You Make

• Pause before you purchase.
• Pay bills on time.
• Use a debit card.
• Shop around.
• Find extra money for your savings.

3) Invest Money You Don’t Spend

• Save automatically.
• Earn more interest.
• Build your money confidence with Jean’s investment basics.

4) Protect Your Money

• Get insurance.
• Get a will.
• Get an account in your name.
• Learn how to better secure your future.

Source: Jean Chatzky on Oprah.com

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Further reading

• The Difference
• I Need An Income Source That Outlives Me!
• How To Have All Your Wishes Come True
• How To Make A New Year’s Resolution That LASTS!
• Push Back & Live Life

Almost everyone I know are discussing, angry or complaining about the recent increase in petrol price in Malaysia. People are already contemplating to get by the increasing cost of transportation by suggesting various means such as car-pooling, buying a fuel-saving car, taking public transportations, or even cycling to work. Well, I must say that these are valid moves to reduce our daily expeneses. BUT… how long can we continue doing this to keep reducing our standard of living? This is a defensive financial approach towards our personal finances.

There is another way.

We should start taking the offensive financial approach instead, so that we will not be cornered at the end of the day, only to realize that we are in a serious state of financial disaster.

There are a lot of highly paid people who are still poor, or are drown in debts and high monthly commitments. They are not incapable people. In fact, most of them are at managerial levels or running a group of salespeople.

The main reason that had led to many people’s poor financial lives is that they are trading time with money.

Look around. What are those basic living expenses which had increased in price since the past 5 to 10 years? Are there any of your monthly expenses which had been increasing steadily within the past 5 to 10 years? How much had they increased? How much more do you think they will increase?

The only way we can keep coping up with the ever increasing cost of living while maintaining or increasing our standard of living, is to be offensive in our financial approach, and not to be defensive all the time.

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Further reading

• The Difference
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